{"id":2697,"date":"2012-03-18T07:55:29","date_gmt":"2012-03-18T14:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/?p=2697"},"modified":"2021-01-29T22:53:56","modified_gmt":"2021-01-30T05:53:56","slug":"my-bali-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/2012\/03\/my-bali-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"My Bali Birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-2guyspatio.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatleft\" title=\"Cool statuary on the patio\" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-2guyspatio-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>As you know, I was invited to spend my birthday at a lovely villa in Bali.<\/p>\n<p>After a 23 hour journey, including layover in Taipei, I arrived to this <em class=\"b\">lush, green island<\/em> and was welcomed by my son and his family. Except for 9 month old Aysia, who burst into tears as soon as she saw me.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve spent a lot of time <em class=\"b\">relaxing in the pool<\/em> and in the house, talking, a little time sightseeing, and have been enjoying every minute. I love this opportunity to reconnect with my sweet family. And I&#8217;ve been taking a lot of photos for future posts.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-pool2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatright\" title=\"Pool overlooking rice fields \" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-pool2-255x170.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"255\" height=\"170\" \/><\/a>You&#8217;d think that just<em> being <\/em>in Bali, relaxing at a villa where all the meals are fresh prepared, all my needs are attended to, a gorgeous pool outside my door and a glorious view of the valley would be enough of a birthday gift, wouldn&#8217;t you.<\/p>\n<p><em class=\"b\">What more could you ask for?<\/em><br \/><!--more--><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-attable.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatleft\" title=\"Outdoor dining at the villa in Bali\" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-attable-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>I was given the honor of selecting our meals for the day <em>(prepared by the wonderful cook, Ketut)<\/em>. We had a delicious black rice porridge for breakfast, along with fresh fruit. For lunch, a tasty pasta primavera. For dinner, chicken curry.<\/p>\n<p>I spent some time in the pool, a little time online, and after lunch enjoyed a <em class=\"b\">90 minute massage<\/em> on the patio. One of the best massages I&#8217;ve ever had, and cost only $22.50.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-emily-steps.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatright\" title=\"Emily with the flower decorated steps\" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-emily-steps-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Little did I know that while I was enjoying my massage, the family and household staff were busily preparing for my<em class=\"b\"> surprise birthday celebration<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I walked back into the house to find <em class=\"b\">fresh flowers lining every step<\/em>, woven coconut leaf decorations hung everywhere, a <em class=\"b\">huge bouquet of fresh tuberose<\/em> on the table, and furniture pushed back against the walls.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-party-hanging.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatleft\" title=\"Balinese party decorations\" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-party-hanging-255x143.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"255\" height=\"143\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"clear: right;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><strong>What could it mean???<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We decided to take advantage of the open space to dance! Aysia appropriately chose my birthday to warm up enough to <em class=\"b\">let me hold her<\/em> \ud83d\ude42 as we sang and danced around the room to Natasha Bedingfield&#8217;s &#8220;Unwritten.&#8221; We&#8217;re good friends again now (though mommy is still her favorite, of course).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-dance-liv.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2718\" title=\"Dancing in the living room\" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-dance-liv-523x265.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"526\" height=\"266\" srcset=\"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-dance-liv-523x265.jpg 523w, https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-dance-liv-255x129.jpg 255w, https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-dance-liv.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 526px) 100vw, 526px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-me-cake.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatright\" title=\"My birthday cake\" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali-me-cake-219x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"219\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>After dinner, Ketut brought out my birthday cake and the family sang.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it was as <em class=\"b\">delicious as it looks<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>And just as delicious was the <em class=\"b\">home-made passion fruit ice cream<\/em> with kiwi fruit. Pure heaven.<\/p>\n<p>While I was enjoying the view of the candles reflecting in the swimming pool, Brandon came to tell me that my guests were arriving.<\/p>\n<p><em class=\"b\">Guests??? <\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012_bday_044sm.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatleft\" title=\"Kids at my birthday party\" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012_bday_044sm-255x198.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"255\" height=\"198\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"clear: right;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>I walked into the living room to discover at least <em class=\"b\">30 young Balinese children <\/em> from the neighborhood politely sitting on the floor, and an array of ornate instruments opposite them under the hanging decorations.<\/p>\n<p>I had no idea what was coming next.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali_barong_08sm.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"floatright\" title=\"The Gamelan \" src=\"http:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bali_barong_08sm-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>While we waited, <em class=\"b\">Aysia delighted the children<\/em> by crawling toward them and then smiling and clapping for them. She, in turn, was just as delighted that they clapped and smiled back at her.<\/p>\n<p>Soon it was time for the performance to begin&#8230;. and I learned that <em class=\"b\">Brandon &amp; Jennifer had arranged for a Balinese theatre\/dance company to come entertain us<\/em> with traditional Balinese dances.<em> (Isn&#8217;t he an amazing son?)<br \/><\/em><br \/>Barong, Baris, Pendet Flower and Cendrawasih (Bird of Paradise) Dances, accompanied by the Gamelan&#8230; I think the video will tell the story best&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OdAFxX-AqdE\" width=\"526\" height=\"297\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>I wish we&#8217;d captured video of the whole &#8220;Happy Birthday&#8221; song from the Balinese children &#8211; it was so sweet. Really a special finale.<\/p>\n<p>This was the <em class=\"b\">best birthday<\/em> I could ever imagine. The only thing that could possibly have made it better would be to have had all of you attend the party too!<\/p>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d think that just being in Bali, relaxing at a villa where all the meals are fresh prepared, all my needs are attended to, a gorgeous pool outside my door and a glorious view of the valley would be enough of a birthday gift, wouldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t you?  My son had something even more special in mind&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219,11],"tags":[216,41,42,224,84,222,225,242,226],"class_list":["post-2697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bali-travel","category-travel","tag-bali","tag-birthday","tag-brandon","tag-dance","tag-family","tag-indonesia","tag-performance","tag-travel","tag-ubud"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2697"}],"version-history":[{"count":34,"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2697\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3062,"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2697\/revisions\/3062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/silenceoftheclams.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}