Dear Paul,
I realized today that I didn’t get a birthday card in the mail to you – which I had fully intended to do. So, instead, this year you get an online birthday greeting. I have no baby pictures of you to share – but did come up with a couple of gems 🙂
So…Â Happy birthday to one of my favorite people in the world – certainly my favorite former in-law. Â Â I have so many fond memories of times spent with you – most of them filled with laughter and or witty/ironic observations about the insanity that surrounded us.
Thank you for giving me crazy perms and purple, red or blonde hair and making me feel beautiful even when I wasn’t. Time spent in your salon chair was better than therapy.
Thanks for helping me survive the “Pearce years.”  For the listening ear, the commiserating, the humorous observation, support and the shoulder to cry on.
Thanks for taking me dancing when your brother wouldn’t. Memories of our trips to the Sun still make me smile.
Thanks for being irreverent and snickering at the back of the room with me at those gawd-awful Christmas parties, where the entertainment was watching videos of the previous year’s entertainment. I’m so glad I found myself among the troublemakers of the family… there weren’t many of us, but we banded together and had a good time 🙂
Thanks for being one of the few people to whom I could send a birthday card I got at Cahoots back in the 80s 🙂
Thanks for opening my eyes and completely shifting my perspective and view on being gay…. you were the first person I knew to come out – and, in that very moment, I realized that nearly everything I’d been taught about homosexuality was wrong. And I just keep thinking that if everyone could really know you, they’d all “get it…” and their eyes would be opened too!
And though we are no longer officially related, you feel like family to me… we’re now family by choice. I’m so glad that you finally got online so we could be in regular touch!
You are a bright light and always a joy to be around, Paul. I’m so delighted that you have found a place you love to live, and someone you adore to share your life with. May this year be the best yet.
And yes – I am still planning on coming for a visit before the year is over!
Happy birthday and love you!
P.S. Anyone else want to wish Paul a happy birthday or share a memory of him with us? 🙂